Monday, 18 February 2008

Celebrations!!

Wow!! Has it been 2 weeks since I last posted here?! Are you all still there or have you given up on this blog already?!?!

I know I was very tied up but I had no idea 2 weeks had flown by without me giving you all any update on our lives.

Well, nothing much has happened. We were busy preparing for Isaac's 1st month celebration which happened on the 26th of January and when I said busy preparing, I was not kidding.

See, besides the usual sourcing for a caterer for the luncheon, we went ...... well a few steps further! Our home was about 6 years old now so we decided to repaint it. It was not easy when we were so close to Chinese New Year. In the end the Mrs, ever reliable, found a relative cheap deal and to make it even cheaper we went out and purchased our own paint.

Isaac's Godma happens to be an Interior Designer so she chose a few colours for us. We went ahead without knowing what they will look like because we trust her and a large part of it was also down to the fact that they are mostly mixtures of different colours and not those off the shelf ones hence there wasn’t any colour chart for them.

We were also tired of our sofa so we got ourselves a new one called Tagliatelle from this place Massimmo, you might know the shop if you followed the channel 8 variety program on renovating houses, Home Decor (actually its more like renovating the living room). They need to fabricate our sofa according to our dimensions so it will not be ready till 8th March. Meantime they loaned us a set so plus the original set, we had enough sitting place for our guests.

Lastly the Mrs also spent a considerably time on selecting the party favours for all our friends and relatives. She had a few options but in the end went with the Hershey chocolates with specially printed wrappers. The wrappers were ordered directly from the States while the chocolates were bought from the distributor locally. We had the same idea for our wedding so we were pleasantly surprised when the staffs remembered us from our last order. Apparently till date no one else has gone to them for this arrangement.




Unfortunately we did not have any family portrait taken during the celebration because we were so busy entertaining our various groups of friends and relatives. In fact come to think of it, the Mrs and I were at separate parts of the house most of the time.

Once the 1st month celebration was over, we were busy with the preparation for the Chinese New Year! The main item on the agenda was to find the Mrs and Baby Isaac some new clothing.

It was impossible to find a red top for Isaac so we ended up buying the usual white and blue. Then Godma surprised us with 2 tops for Isaac and both are from Club 21 (Armani)!! We later learned that each piece costs approximately S$290!!! That was crazy!! So now we have to try and let Isaac wear them more often before he outgrows them.

Notice how you would normally not mind spending a tat more buying baby clothes for your friends’ kids but when it comes to your own, practicality seemed to always win? Not that I am going to buy an Armani for anyone’s kid but we have no problem buying Baby Guess, Gap or Zara as gifts for friends but we have to consider that bit longer when we want to buy for Isaac. Have we gotten cheap skate with the birth of a child or are we merely cheap parents?!

The year of the Rat also mark the first year that we can hopefully half our "loses" because we have been giving ang baos for the past 5 years without taking any in return. A quick survey revealed that we have to stick to my plan of having 3 kids in order to not “lose” money during Chinese New Year. Oh dear!! I think…….its official, I’m cheap skate for just thinking it! Ha Ha

With all the ang paos that Baby Isaac had collected from his 1st month celebration and Chinese New Year, including the baby bonus given by the Government, Baby Isaac could actually pay for his own delivery in Mount Elizabeth, the painting of the house plus the catered luncheon. Hmmm.... come to think of it, he may just be able to pay for the new sofa as well!! Not bad huh?! It was very tempting to seek reimbursement or what I would like to refer to as safe keeping the money for him. But in the end we went out and got him a new bank account.

Lastly, in case you’re wondering, I did not get careless and forgot to “Photoshoped” our names out of the wrappers! I was merely too lazy to do it plus I figured I owed it to all 3 of you who are still coming back to this blog with me going MIA for these past weeks!! So there you have it, our names at last!

Hi, my name is Dylan and thank you for following my blog!

50 comments:

Missy & Jav said...

hi Dylan! nice to see you back in action!!

i nearly named my son Dylan if not for the fact that my hubby was against it. hmph!

no photos?? so sad, i was so looking forward to seeing some family pic. that being said, we didn't take any pic during the full mth celebration too! i still remembered my place was like a madhouse with guests and guests streaming in. so i totally understand and thus you are forgiven. hehehe... but i hope to see some pic real soon!

cheers,
missy

Anonymous said...

AHAHAHAHA.. your covered is uncovered.. AHAHAHAHAHHAA..
:P

Mrs Chew

Anonymous said...

Cover is uncovered.. mind the englishhhhhh :D

Mrs Chew

missmoon said...

hello hello :)
Finally! ha. was waiting patiently for your post. where are the pics? akan datang huh?

anyway, happy CNY and happy 1st month to Issac :)

A Husband's Voice said...

WOW! WOW! WOW!

It always amazes me how come you ladies know when I've posted! It's almost like you subscribe to an online / email updating service.

Ha Ha Ha

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Missy,

Hmmm.... should I be offended that your husband does not like my name? See, I knew I should not have made it known. Hee Hee

I assured you that photos will be loaded soon.

The Mrs is in the midst of this project where we will develop our pictures in various sizes and then have them framed and displayed on this feature wall.

I will show you all how it is like once it is done, if ever. Ha Ha

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Jolin,

Yes, my cover has been uncovered! Although voluntarily.

No updates on your blog?! Too busy like me?

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Missmoon,

Yes, pictures Akan Datang. Owe you all first. Although I suspect that I may have a few pictures that I can put up in my next post. I quite like them. They were taken at Godma's house during CNY

I already have them in my Facebook and friends who have seen them like them.

Happy New Year to you and your family too!

Nicole said...

Hi Dylan,

Your mrs thinks alike as my sister! My sister had done exactly the same wrapper back then for some chocolate bars to give away as xmas small treats. Had wanted her to do the same for cleo's 1st month, but too bad, she's now in UK. But the idea is indeed interesting. *smiles*

Your post on Isaac's 1st month and the photo are taking ages. My post for Cleo's 1st month celebration had come and gone and I've still yet to see yours! *hint hint*

How's Isaac's weight now?? You know, most people that have seen Cleo said that she's big! I'm wondering if she is. Given that our kids are so close in age/weight, maybe can compare notes??

Anonymous said...

Hi Dylan, (finally a name to fill in here, hehe)

I'm oso a 'cheap skate' parent... i do buy Gap & Osh Kosh stuffs for my kids, but i only buy those marked down ones... =)

Jia you! Jia you! on your plan to hv 3 kids... not only the government will be happy, I'll be happy for you too! I dun know why, i always feel happy for pple getting married or hvg babies... =P

missmoon said...

on facebook? that's great. may i add you? would love to view some pics sort of as a preview of what is to come. ha.

Missy & Jav said...

you are on facebook too??? hey, i'm there too! can add you?? coz i'm dying to see your family pic!!! hahahaa

Missy & Jav said...

guess what?? i did a search on facebook and i think i found you!!!! hahaha... i saw the pic of you, Mrs and Issac!! nice family pic!!! the 3 of you make a very handsome family!

if you are agreeable to me adding you to my facebook, let me know ok!

Anonymous said...

hi dylan (a name finally!),

we ladies know when you update your blog probably because some of us check back every (other) day, cheering when there's something new, and swearing when there's none. *hahaha* just kidding on the swearing part yah?

you certainly have been busy for the last few weeks. just curious, didn't the elders make some noise about painting the house with an infant around? thought they may have some objections coz' of the smell of the paint.

do post the pictures soon. looking forward to seeing pictures of your little boy! how heavy is he now? my little girl is playing catching up. she should be around 3.3 kg now - last i weighed her myself. =P

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Nicole,

Yeah, the chocolate wrapper idea was interesting and rather unique too. I'll try and find our wedding ones and post it online for you to see.

Er....I don't I will be posting on Isaac's 1st month in details anymore. Because I was so busy my thoughts were all jumbled up so it was briefly mentioned in this latest post. That's all.

As I explained we were so busy entertaining we did not take any family portrait together.

However I promise you that I will post our pictures soon.

Isaac seems to be on the smaller side because he is turning 2 months soon but he only weighs about 4.4kg.

We will be going to the PD soon so will update you all on his "dimensions" if they do take it.

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi nana,

Its nice to know another "cheap skate" parent!!

We too tend to buy when there is a discount. Recently we bought 2 pieces during the Gap sale (2nd piece at half price)!

Of course there are a few pieces that we will buy because they are simply too nice.

As for 3 kids, let's work on number 2 first. Don't want to frighten the Mrs! Hee Hee

A Husband's Voice said...

Hey Cynthia,

Of course you can add me in your Facebook. But I guess by now you already know that cause I have already confirmed you as a friend.

Sorry to disappoint you in that because I am new to Facebook I have not gotten the time to upload my pictures. So you can only see that profile picture.

I will upload all my photos in due time. Once done, the pictures in this blog will be a prevail while those in Facebook will have many more.

Guess you'll have to wait like everyone else. ;p

A Husband's Voice said...

Hey Missy,

When I saw your 2nd comment I had this really wide grin until my colleague thought there was something wrong with me. Because she has no idea of my blog I can only say "nothing"!

Between you and Missmoon, I feel really pressurised. You two really want to see how we look like huh?! Ha Ha

Please do add me to your Facebook but please make known you are Missy for me to confirm okay?

You are probably the only person to see our family picture because after your comment, I decided to change it. Hee Hee

My friend told me there was this singer, Ocean I think, and his MTV are all cartoons so all his fans wanted to see his real face. It seemed he did reveal and after that his popularity took a nose dive.

Maybe I'm Ocean II and after showing you all our pictures, with the mystery gone, I will really be left with 3 readers! Ha Ha

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Roanne,

I know you ladies have been faithfully checking if I have posted any new so for that I felt bad that it took me so long to do it.

Actually surprisingly they did not. I think they are not particular once Isaac is past his 1st month.

But that doesn't mean we did not take the necessary precautions. The paints were most odourless except for those that we used on the pipes and our doors. We ventilated it pretty well with fans and opened windows. Isaac was mainly out of the house during the painting.

Isaac is almost 2 months old now and he is only 4.4kg. Depending what time of the day and who weighs him, there will always be a slight difference. But on the average 4.4kg is about right.

Nicole said...

Hi Dylan,
My goodness!!! That means Cleo is very big! She's already 4.2kg when she's just 1 month old!!!! I reckon she'll be at least 5kg now?? *blush*

Missy & Jav said...

oh no!!!! did i just pressurise you??? i thought you and Mrs look great! and of coz not forgetting handsome Issac :)

why are you changing your pic after reading my comment? i hope i didn't bring any incovenience to you.

ok, lemme go send you a friend request now. hehehe

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Nicole,

I'm a first time dad so I cannot be sure if Cleo is considered big.

What I can say is Isaac is small because he wasn't gaining much weight during first 3 weeks. So now he is only doing catch-up.

Anonymous said...

!!!!! what do you all feed your babies?! they are all ~~ err, so big!

to my little girl: jia you okay? we got a fair bit of catching up to do with isaac kor kor and cleo jie jie!

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Missy,

I do not mean pressurised in a bad way. It's just that I never imagine a few of you will be in Facebook and you can actually do a search on me!! Ha Ha

I'm pressurised because now that you can locate me, I should look into uploading the pictures soonest.

The reason I changed the profile picture, truth be told it wasn't really flattering for me! Ha Ha

BTW am I right to assume you are Jerene?

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Roanne,

Not sure about Cleo but Isaac is on 75% formula and 25% breast milk.

More details in my next post so stay tune.

missmoon said...

hello Dylan :)
heee, well, at least i got a preview of the family portrait. it is always nice to put a face to the name, isn't it?

thanks, will definitely be waiting for the pics to be uploaded.

Issac looks different from the very NB days, doesn't he? he is soooo cute! adorable! almost makes me wish for a 2nd one NOW. ha

Missy & Jav said...

bingo! that's me! hehehe... now we can put a face to our names.

take your time in uploading the picok. dun be so stressed and pressurise by us. hahaha

is Issac drinking well? input and output ok? if yes, nothing to worry about. babies who r on breastmilk generally gain weight slower than formula babies. like my boy, he was borned at 3.8kg which was big but subsequently, he didn't gain as much weight as the other babies and in fact dun look as big anymore. he was on total breastmilk for the 1st 3mth and subsequently partial breastmilk and formula until he was 6mth old and finally formula milk thereafter.

so dun worry too much on the weight gain. like Issac is still a newborn, wait till he starts semi-solids and see how his appetite and weight gain is.

Anonymous said...

hi dylan, write your next post quickly! the topic on breast milk vs formula milk is one that is very close to my heart, since i cannot quite make up my mind which way to go. would love to see what you guys think and what made you and the mrs decide to feed more formula than breast milk. =)

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Cynthia,

Yes you indeed got a preview of our family picture. You're probably the only one. Lucky You!! Ha Ha Ha

Isaac has indeed changed quite a bit. Funny is I can't really tell unless I'm comparing photos.

So when people ask who he looks like, it matters little now because he will continue to change.

Go for a second one then?! Why wait? I already got scolded by the Mrs for being insensitive when I asked Dr N when can we try again while he was stitching her up. ;p

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Jerene,

I will touch on the weight and milk issue in my next post. If I talk about it here and now then I got no idea for next post liao! Hee Hee

Anonymous said...

Cool name! We wanted that too (even for a girl), because of the Bob Dylan/Dylan Thomas reference.

I'm on Facebook too (Evelyn Tan-Rogers), but not active there.

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Roanne,

It is not everyday that I get a written request to blog about a particular topic. So I will not let you down. Hee Hee

However since we are already nearing knock off time, I will be heading home to see Mr Isaac (pronounced like how Hiro Nakamura does in Heroes), I can only work on my next post hopefully tomorrow.

What I can promise is this, my next post is entitled Milk!

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Evelyn,

Thanks for your compliment on my name. Truth be told I did not know it was a unisex name until I watched Charlie's Angels!! Sad right?!

I'll try and look you up in Facebook. As I mentioned, I'm very new with Facebook so will be rather inactive too but what the heck let's have fun together.

Alternatively you can look for me since I have a feeling you're better at it than me.

My address is emailmequickly@gmail.com

Anonymous said...

and to think people always tease me about my email address - the_water_cooler@yahoo.com.sg. yours is even funnier. *hahaha*

nana said...

Hi Dylan,

I added u too (FB). =)

Fucheen said...

Hi Dylan, pleased to follow your blog all this time!

I share your experience. My girl is 3.5 months old now and I've only bought her 5 jumpsuits since birth. But she has so many pretty outfits from all our friends n relatives. Not cheapskate parents, but Issac will outgrow his stuff really quickly!

Aces Family said...

Hi Dylan,

wow..it's worth the wait..haha : )

When it's your No.1, you will want to plan all the best for whatever celebrations related to the Baby..hee : P

Today is the last day of CNY, taking this chance to wish you and your lovely family : 元宵節快樂 !!

cheers,
astee

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Roanne,

If you ask me, I'll have to say that your email address the_water_cooler is more weird and funnier.

Bet you receive a lot of "huh?!" when you tell people your email address right?

I always get "huh?!?!" when I tell anyone my email. But what we have are very easy to remember for people who do not know us.

So may I ask why are you the water cooler girl? Hee Hee

A Husband's Voice said...

Hey Nana,

Yup! Confirmed you as friend already. ;0)

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Fucheen,

Thanks for following. Just added your blog on my favourites list too. So will follow Alexis's progress too. BTW I do like the name Alexis.

Like Alexis, Isaac is blessed to receive clothes from Godma, friends and relatives too so we really only bought minimum.

Keep reading ya!

A Husband's Voice said...

Hey Astee,

Thanks! From what I see from your blog you have had a rather busy CNY too!

About No. 1 being special, I like to think that I will treat all celebrations for number 2 just as special. Hmmm.... does this mean I will have to repaint the house and buy new furniture when I celebrate the 1st month for #2?

Anonymous said...

haha.. my cover is uncovered too? hahaa, yes BEEN UPDATING.. my site not like yours! no comments one.. hey, but i mus say i accidently uncovered my cover too.. but anyhow, whatever! do continue reading my little rants.. haaa

Mrs Chew

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Jolin,

I take a personal interest in trying to find out who reads my blog whenever possible. So if you got careless and leave a trail for me to pick up then too bad!! Ha Ha

Yeah. I saw your latest post. I wish you luck with Mr With Drawer and Mr Korean. Oh and not forgetting the zits too!

I will keep reading so long as you keep ranting. Argh!!! Corny!! Ha Ha

Missy & Jav said...

i've a baby blog too but i've set it to pte mode. so Dylan, if you wish to read my blog, let me know so that i can invite you ok.

oh ya, i must tell you this. i seriously think Issac is a carbon copy of you! when i scroll back to his new born pic, i was like wow! that's dylan's junior! hahaha

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Jerene,

Of course I am interested in reading your blog. Please invite me.

You really think he looks like me? That's what some say but there are others who said he looks like the Mrs. My mum said Isaac look exactly like how I did when I was an infant. I shall post both our pictures and let you all compare.

Meantime please take a look at Isaac on my latest post. Its the picture from my Facebook profile but with a little difference. I got my sis to Photoshop it for me.

Anonymous said...

Hi AHusband,

I'm a new member to this forum and saw your blog... very well written and am impressed with what husbands can be bothered to do... :-P

Also saw the pretty chocolate wrappers you used for your baby's 1st month. May I know the contact and price you purchase them? Am thinking if I need something like this for my baby's 1st birthday this Mar. Thanks and looking forward to your reply.

Ashley Daddy and Mummy said...

Dear Dylan

I chanced upon your blog and enjoy reading it. It's refreshing to hear a daddy's perspective of parenthood. My hubby and I lost our twins last year but we picked ourselves up and would be welcoming an adopted baby newborn girl into our family next month. Although she hasn't arrived, we're already thinking of ways to make the announcement of her arrival special. Can you email me at angelinesim(at)yahoo(dot)com to share the contacts of your unique Hershey party favors with us? Also, please do drop by the blog which we kept in honour of my twins at http://ashleyisourangel.blogspot.com Look forward to hearing from you.

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi swmom,

Thank you very much for following my blog. I am happy to know that you will be celebrating your baby's 1st month. So are we invited? Just kidding! ;p

The website for the wrapper is www.wrappedhersheys.com and there are many many designs to choose from.

We paid about US$1/- per piece for the wrappers excluding postage.

The Mrs wants me to advise you to choose the normal postage because the difference in price is huge.

She also wants you to know that the size to pick should be 1.55oz standard wrapped chocolate.

I dont think I mentioned this but we opted to wrap the chocolates individually ourselves. This is a little time consuming but a lot cheaper.

You can order the chocolates from the distributor in Singapore. Their website is www.lucas.com.sg

Do let us know if you require further information or assistance.

A Husband's Voice said...

Hi Ashley's mummy,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. In fact the Mrs was following your story in the SMH forum. I am so happy to learn that you and your husband have picked yourselves up and are expecting a girl to come into your life by next month.

Thank you very much for following my blog.

I will visit your blog for sure and do keep us posted on your new life with your new girl!

The website for the wrapper is www.wrappedhersheys.com and there are many many designs to choose from.

We paid about US$1/- per piece for the wrappers excluding postage.

The Mrs wants me to advise you to choose the normal postage because the difference in price is huge.

She also wants you to know that the size to pick should be 1.55oz standard wrapped chocolate.

I dont think I mentioned this but we opted to wrap the chocolates individually ourselves. This is a little time consuming but a lot cheaper.

You can order the chocolates from the distributor in Singapore. Their website is www.lucas.com.sg

Do let us know if you require further information or assistance.

Anonymous said...

Hi Dylan,

Thanks for your reply as well as the kind advices from the Mrs.

My baby is turing one yo this Mar and am cracking my head on what to do as it will be a very simple affair.

I will keep in mind these options.

thanks and have a great wkend.

rgds,
Careen